Some Notes on Non-Communication – Not Dead Yet

Blogging is a curious beast. And, picking up a blog when you haven’t posted in a while is a bit like picking up the phone to a friend when you haven’t spoken in a while. Which is to say, the longer you leave it, the harder it gets.

I wouldn’t say I’m off blogging, exactly. But I’m now so catastrophically far behind on our lives that it feels as though, within the leisurely narrative structure I’ve adopted, there’s a mountain to climb. And I don’t want to miss out great swathes of countries and activities, because when, in the past, I’ve skipped over stuff, I’ve regretted it.

Further, even if I did decide to do this, I’d need to work out a way in which to structure it, which, in itself, becomes an item on my blogging to-do list (like all procrastinators, I make GREAT to-do lists).

And that to-do list is small but substantial. Most notably, I need to optimise the site for mobile so that the majority of the digital population, the sort that reads on smartphones, tablets and phablets rather than dinosaur laptops or trilobyte desktops, can read it.

Which means the design’s going to change.

Which means… Well, a whole bloody project, frankly.

Yet, at the same time, paid work which deals with stuff I or we have done more recently than what I’m about to write about has more appeal – not just for the money at the end, but for the immediacy, the simple pleasure of putting words and pictures together for a brief, when you don’t have to scroll through several thousand new pics to find the one you want.

And, yes, sorting out my pictures is also on a to-do list, since you ask.

Which isn’t to say that I don’t want to write about Italy. I do. And I will.

And I don’t want to give up blogging.

But… There’s quite a lot going on right now, almost all of it good, but all of it quite time-consuming, and – at the risk of going all dog-ate-my-homework (which happens, by the way) – I just spent three hours of my life putting internet credit on a dongle. That was, for the record, AFTER I bought the credit…

Anywise, as with picking up the phone, the art of overcoming blogger’s block is, apparently, just as simple as putting paws to keyboard and getting something down. So… that’s what I’m doing. And hopefully we’ll be back in Italy very soon, and up to date even faster.

More to the point, for those of you who don’t do Facebook, we’re both of us very much alive and very much well. And that’s what counts, right? Err, right?


Image credit: I’m Not Working by Quinn Dombrowski on Flickr.

23 Responses

  1. Caroline says:

    Just read this on my mobile, so no problem there. And am in Italy so I reckon I could appeal to your competitive spirit… if I post blog style on FB you’ll soon be motivated to show me how it’s really done!

    • Theodora says:

      Hahahahaha… Nice to hear from you. Problem is not a lack of stuff to write about. It’s too MUCH bloody stuff to write about. Where in Italy are you? Venice-ish, with your friends there?

  2. Amy says:

    My to-do list is very detailed, full of what I should be doing and only ever grows.

    Not that it will make you feel any better, I stopped blogging completely after a couple of months without travel.

    • Theodora says:

      I try and do daily ones. Yes, it really is that bad… I really need a master list that I can break down into daily chunks, though, because otherwise you forget them…

      And…. We haven’t even really stopped travelling. Zac’s passport continues to fill up. I’ve got paid travel writing gigs taking me places. It’s just the timelag that’s the killer.

  3. Caroline says:

    In Rome just now. Tivoli and Venice to come next. It’s raining and I’m a bit knackered so mostly taking hotel room photos and writing to do lists!!

  4. I truly miss reading your adventures! I hope you’ll get back in this space very soon!!

  5. Lia Vandersant says:

    Frankly, for what my opinion is worth, your blog was much more lively when completely in the present. I used to really look forward to the next exciting installment. I would have loved to have read about your recent house and school hunt, or a neat story about your dog, latest scuba diving adventure. But sadly, we are all stuck in Italy 2013 and meanwhile so much water has passed under the bridge! It’s kinda lost its appeal. Perhaps you could do parallel blogs, ‘real time’ blogs and ‘catch up’ blogs. I hope I haven’t offended you because it’s probably a bit harsh, but I miss the spontaneity. Your writing in the present made you part of our lives on an intimate level. And we would really look forward to the next installment of the next unfolding of plots, twists and turns in your lives. But now we see on Facebook that you are creating a new adventure in Bali but rather than keeping up with your house and school hunt etc. as we did when you went to China, we are still stuck in Europe. It isn’t any fun anymore. 🙁

    • Theodora says:

      No, not offended… I’ve not really written entirely in the present for a while — there’s always been a lag since about the first year when I was punctilious about posting (and not working…). But I agree the immediacy’s gone, so I think I’ll just try and accelerate up to the present as fast as I can (which will mean various hilarious Egyptian sagas going missing). It’s not that I’m short of material. BUT at the same time there are people who read the blog from start to finish, as a continuous narrative, so to miss out too much stuff is weird and hard on them…

      • jalakeli says:

        For what it’s worth and as someone who just recently read the blog start to finish, your narrative appeals to me more than immediacy.

  6. Lia Vandersant says:

    Unfortunately you can’t please all your readers all of the time! So ultimately you have to please yourself and enjoy writing your blog! No matter what, your entries are always entertaining!

  7. Natalia says:

    As someone who has just ‘resurrected’ her blog after a 12+ month hiatus, I totally get where you are coming from! Do what works for you, not us.
    Though I am not on Facebook, so nice to see you are doing okay.

  8. Nonplussed says:

    I just returned from another jaunt to Ethiopia, so I’ve been up to my own shenanigans. I’m not on Facespace and a smart-phone is too intrusive (though I may have to do a Vichy and capitulate on that one), so I’d just thought that a life event had happened. I’m so glad it’s paid work, make that money while you can; when you’re hot – you’re hot! Your public will still be here when you plan your comeback. But you are both missed; stay well.

    • Theodora says:

      Ooh, lucky you! I’ve found with a smartphone that you can just switch the data off a lot of the time, so that you are disconnected from everything but the phone function of it — or, for that matter, switch it into aeroplane mode, where it magically becomes just an alarm clock….

      • Nonplussed says:

        I would miss my little Sony Ericsson – I think I lapsed because phones just started getting bigger and bigger when I rather liked their progressive diminishment. It will die one day and that’ll be that; I’ll be forcibly upgraded to an alarm clock with Youtube and I’ll never get out of bed. By the way, I found an article which was very critical of Chinese education (by Mark Kitto, online in Prospect Magazine), amongst other things, very interesting, one thought of you of course.

  9. Monnette says:

    Everybody needs a break, no matter how long or short… and that includes blogging…

  10. Olga says:

    What a perfect time for me to find your blog! At this time I am also back to blog after almost a year back, so I totaly understand what you are talking about. Whatever you decide to post about I will be happy to learn more about your adventures and education on the road, whenever from the past or present. Well.. I didn’t meant to sound like giving a permission 🙂 sorry if I did
    Olga

    • Theodora says:

      Hahaha, no worries, Olga. I’m getting a post up today, absolutely without fail (coughs, blushes) — for the education stuff, clicking the World School tab should pull up quite a bit of what we’ve done educationally over the last four years…

  11. Kelsey says:

    For what it’s worth, I read your blog (like others I subscribe to) via Feedly or Flipboard so the actual website itself doesn’t matter much when I’m on my mobile device. Possibly something to consider!

  12. Barbara says:

    Just realised I haven’t seen you on Facebook for a while. GODDAMN the stupid FB for not showing me your stuff. Your update should be the highlight of my day, now I’m slowed down by a baby.