9 Life Lessons Children Learn From Travel

After almost two years on the road, I have to say that if I’d known how much children learn from travel, I’d have started travelling sooner. Here’s nine key lessons travel teaches children.

1. To Keep an Open Mind
Spending time in different cultures teaches you how very much is relative. From the small things — places where it’s rude to put your feet up, but normal to spit — to the apparent absolutes of religion, politics and life values, travel opens minds.

2. To Learn From What’s Around You
Children are born curious, and new environments bring out that natural curiosity. Whether that’s learning about genocide from someone who’s lived through it, discovering how volcanoes work by climbing a live one, watching coffee being made on a coffee farm, or teaching yourself a new skill just because you can, children learn constantly through travel.

3. To Understand Others
Travel brings you into contact with people whose lives are vastly different from your own. If an urban, Western child can interact with nomadic hunter-gatherers, Buddhist monks, Asian politicians and the rural poor, sometimes without even a common language, they can understand and interact with *anyone*.

4: To Have Confidence In Themselves
Travel gives children confidence. Whether it’s achieving a climb that adults fail at, diving 40 feet below the sea, making their way alone across a big, new city, or making new friends when you arrive in town, the confidence that comes with these gains lasts a lifetime.

5: To See The World Globally
Every country teaches the world and its history from its own perspective. Often (though not always), we present our own countries as the best. Learning the stories of other nations, in other nations, gives children a rounded perspective on the world — its present, its past and its future.

6: To Keep A Sense of Proportion
Witnessing the hard lives that 99% of the world lead — and how many maintain happiness throughout — provides a sense of perspective on your own life. Small challenges feel just that — small.

7: To Be Resilient
Longterm travel is an amazing lifestyle, but it isn’t always easy. Whether it’s emotional challenges, like meeting suffering children, physical challenges, like extreme cold or long, long hikes, or frustrations like being stuck on a broken down bus for 28 hours in searing heat, travel teaches you patience and strength.

8: To Try New Things
From eating insects, flowers or wild spices through to surfing or crafting silver, travel brings children new experiences to try — often, every single day. This reduces any fear of the new and builds a bank of life experiences some adults will never acquire.

9: To Be Wise
To understand the needs and sensitivities of different people, the history and beliefs of different cultures, and the elaborate workings of a big and complex world is, I think, wisdom. And travel brings kids that in spades.

For more on how education works on the road, check out 2010’s unschooling end of year report or this post, which explains how we do home education while travelling.

55 Responses

  1. Keira says:

    I really enjoyed this post. These are some great lessons and I feel they transcend age. Kids and adults learn these while traveling! All the more reason to travel (as if we needed any, lol)!!!

    • Theodora says:

      I realised as I was writing it that a lot of it applied to adults, too. Which isn’t that surprising, as we all have inner children.

  2. Natalia says:

    Great post, and so true. One less ‘deep’ thing I would add is entertaining yourself – I am sure Z is like Willem, and has to endure long train/boat/car trips to get places, hours in boring hotel rooms, and sitting around. He has learned that saying ‘I’m bored’ is not going to get him a response he wants!

    • Theodora says:

      Oh god, yes! Although he’s quite good about books, drawing, and just reaching — ahem — for his laptop…

  3. Traci says:

    Wonderful observations! Of course, a parent with these traits helps the process along. Your son is so fortunate to have a mom like you!

  4. Phil says:

    I’d say these are pretty spot on! And ditto what Traci said..

  5. What an insightful list! I’m particularly grateful that it does impart a sense of proportion.

  6. It’s amazing what we see and the things we will try when we look at the world through a child’s eyes!

    • Theodora says:

      Amen to that! Particularly, in fact, with smaller children, where you find yourself gawping at insects, rocks, flowers and the like, it’s very easy to rediscover the sense of wonder.

  7. Lisa Wood says:

    That is why we wanted to travel – so that our children can learn about the real life and how to get alone, explore, discover, learn, love and adventure instead of reading it about in a text book while sitting in a class room.
    It is amazing with how much we all have learnt as a family while living in our motorhome.
    cheers
    Lisa

    • Theodora says:

      I do think there’s a lot to be said for active, hands-on learning. Although, on the classroom front, I am really glad that Z now has someone working with him on maths and science (not my strong suit, but his)…

  8. Renee says:

    “Longterm travel is an amazing lifestyle, but it isn’t always easy.”

    Very true. Difficult days are par for the course for long-term travelers, but after a while kids get better at dealing with adversity. In the past 9 months on the road I’ve seen my daughter improve a lot in this area. And myself too!

    • Theodora says:

      Yes! In “normal” life I’m one of the most footstampingly impatient people on the planet. Travel forces you into zen habits. (And I’d agree that kids are better it than us, being kids.)

  9. Great list! These are all the reasons why we try to travel as much as possible with our kids,both near and far. It’s pretty much all the reasons we unschool, too!

    • Theodora says:

      Yes. I think unschooling and travel go together hand in hand. That said, we’ve agreed to hand the maths and science over to someone who knows about it — which is working remarkably well.

  10. Justin says:

    Love this list Theodora. Love number 6, this we often miss. I look forward to my kids experiences all these lessons as we travel. Thanks!

  11. Stuart says:

    Kids are born to learn and their elastictity, adaptability and acceptance of what is is truly a lesson in itself. Wide ranging travel provides a very rich and contrasting canvas for learning which it is hard to recreate in more static environments. The effortless way they learn at home and while travelling makes me feel like something of an old fossil sometimes, which I probably am. But their learning and your observations can be an inspiration to old fossils too! Nice work!

    • Theodora says:

      I feel a bit of a fossil too, in fact. Particularly when it comes to scampering round castles. I can hike. But scampering — even running — is not my forte.

  12. Great post – I think it’s really important to learn from what is around you and try to challenge yourself to try new things.

  13. Excellent! If only all parents saw traveling with their children in this way. I’m afraid that some just find any kind of travel with children to be a burden. They need to learn the same lessons, I think. Well done.

    • Theodora says:

      With the exception of one flight I actually missed when he was nine months old, because I was going with a child-free friend who didn’t realise the phenomenal quantities of crap I’d be carrying through the airport and timed her arrival as if she were a solo traveler, it’s been a joy all the way down the line, CAthy.

  14. Great post and right on the button. I also concur with Cathy’s point about most parents finding travel with children a chore. We love travelling with our 3-yr-old.

  15. This is great! I think we learn so much from children.I wish I was able to tap into my thoughts and ideals I had in childhood today.

  16. sue rodman says:

    Travel is wonderful for children. I enjoy seeing how my children react as they get older and what they remember from places we’ve been.

    • Theodora says:

      I’m surprised how much Z remembers from trips when he was very small — and what he doesn’t. He remembers being scratched by a cat in Egypt when he was 18 months, which is probably his earliest memory. Things like EuroDisney seem to stick better than Mayan pyramids, though, which is perhaps not surprising…

  17. This is a wonderful post. And exactly why I travel with my kids, even if it’s not for the long haul.

  18. I also found that kids who travel more are less discriminate. My son doesn’t know the difference between black, brown, orange or white, all people are the same to him.

    While a lot of kids from his school that come over, I am constantly hearing discriminating jokes about blacks and chinese especially. For one, they probably never met any and 2, their families teach them this in their confined small worlds.

    • Theodora says:

      Amen to that. My son is completely colour blind. As in, he looked at an old photo of my Mum and said, “Wow, she looks like Sophie!” I said, “Who’s Sophie?” because the only person I could think of was our Chinese teacher. Which was, of course, who he meant — because he’s colour blind, and I’m not.

  19. Mara says:

    I have a nine year old, and couldn’t agree with this list more. And it is for these reasons that I am looking forward to our next sabbatical in a couple of years when I can take him farther afield and show him what life is like in Asia.

    I also feel like traveling has taught my kids to value experience over stuff in many instances, which is something I really don’t see in a lot of their peers.

    • Theodora says:

      I think that’s definitely true — he’s a lot less concerned with stuff than he was after living almost two years with very little of it. And, yes, he talks about his experiences a lot. It’s great that you’re off again, as well!

  20. hpretty says:

    gosh if my children learn to be even a handful of these I will be the happiest mum alive. Best lessons in the world.

    M2M

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  22. Alice says:

    My husband and I enjoy traveling with our 3 kids – it is a great bonding experience and sometimes a test of patience 🙂 Traveling is a great learning experience – what you have written are exactly the reasons why our family always travel together + we learn from each other and about each other. Great post!

  23. Kirstie says:

    What a brilliant post!

  24. Allyson says:

    Fantastic article! We LOVE traveling with our 2 1/2 year old and wouldn’t want it any other way. Like Theodora, our son is always surprising us with the things he remembers from our travels, even when he was much younger. Travel is the BEST hands-on learning activity there is!

    • Theodora says:

      I would 100% agree with you. And I really, really hope you keep it up. Learning like this is great at any age…

  25. Excellant article! I agree that kids (and parents) learn so much from traveling. My toddler is clearly more patient and calm because of the adventures he has had on the road, and I think it has helped him quite a bit in school.

  26. Sherry says:

    Fabulous list and mirrors what I tell parents when they are thinking of coming to Mexico with their kids to learn Spanish. The confidence they gain with the new language too is often immeasurable.